Up and Down, Up and down

Sometimes it goes up, sometimes it goes down.

Sometimes one is up when the other is down. 

When one is down, it takes the other to help them back up. 

And when another is too high up, it takes the other to bring them down. 

Its helps much when it comes back down, the other holds ;

just enough so that it don't go crashing to the ground. 

Sometimes, or mostly, both are at a balance. 

And balance takes two to maintain it just like that. 

When one stops trying, the other either falls;

or struggles just to maintain that balance.

And sometimes, when it just gets too tiring, too difficult;

it comes crashing down again. 

So relationship is like a see-saw.

It takes 2 to play, 1 will be no fun at all. 

So if you decide to jump onto a see-saw, 

be ready, be prepared, take courage. 

Bride & Day (mare)

I woke up today with a heavy head and pounding heart.  I had a dream... I'm in church and it's my wedding day. I'm all dressed up in some big massive cap gown but without make-up and my hair was a mess. My make-up artist did not turned up. And my photographer bailed out last minute stating that I did not pay him a deposit. And then Rockstar forgotten to give the bridal walk in music to the sound people. And then there was only a hand full of people sitting in the pews. And the pastor walked in with a long black cloak *like in some epic Cowboy Indian funeral show* with black top hat. I quickly got my twin to do my make-up, handed my camera to a friend to take pictures and as I wanted to walk down the aisle, I realized my eyebrows are horrendous. 

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Like some big furry black worm stuck onto my forehead. And as I got closer to the aisle, it grew and grew *like some freak sci-fi show* and became even more lopsided...if I remembered my dream correctly, I think I tried shaving my own eyebrows because I did not get it done earlier and i accidentaly shaved it wrongly. So its bend like a hockey stick with the longer end hanging vertically beside my eye. How horrid to walk down the aisle on the most important day of your life looking like a monster? 

That nightmare... or bride-mare should have given me a warning sign that it's gonna be a bad day... but since I don't believe such crap, I pushed it aside.. 

But later as I drove to church, in my mother-in-law (to-be)'s car... the temperature needle went all the way to the warning red line *really scary* and with my heart pounding again, I turned in to the petrol station and got a nice petrol attendant to assist me.. Radiator almost dried, and after pouring water in, it started to leak. Our conclusion : radiator leaking. But after a while, the dripping stopped. So I managed to drive back to Rockstar's house and will have 1 day to ponder the complexity of cars before sending it to the workshop on Monday. 

Didn't I say I am jinx already? CAR, Y U NO LIKE ME?

Saw this on proudduck.com and decided to post it up because it made me laugh.. 





Bridezilla or not... Bride-mare or not, thank God I do not have a beard and mustache..

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I think I'll take a long shower, slather on some lavender lotion, put on a mask and prop my feet up in front of the TV...

........and do what I always do when I am feeling down and horrible... EAT CHOCOLATES!!!

Twinnie is engaged too!!

I can't remember if I mentioned it on this blog but my twin sister is engaged!!! *its long overdue* I'm so happy for her. She actually got engaged earlier then me and then I got engaged too, then she had her engagement party and then I sorta had my engagement dinner and even though I am getting married first - 6 months earlier then her.... 2 bridezillas under 1 roof is not a good thing.... muaahahaha *evil laugh*

Anyway, I have not posted up her engagement party photos yet... So here it is.. 

It was a big group of about 50 people with mostly E's relative and some of ours held at our house. There was lots of good food, fun and of cos the proposal video :)

And it was totally decorated by Lydia and my second sister. They are all super creative... I'm the ugly duckling :) Its kinda blurry. I'm not good at night/ dark places pictures.

Bunch of 'crappers'

Eldest sister, BIL, youngest sister, only brother and cousin 

And guess where these bunch went after dinner?

Cramped up inside the tiny laundry room for some childhood board games 

The VIPs of the night.. 

Thank You gifts for everyone.. 

And since the floral arrangements were still alive the next day, I took some more pictures of it under sunlight.. 

White roses, white carnations, blue hydrangeas and some green leaves

Tags with tiny roses crafted from clay - also made by my second sister

My 2nd sister does floral arrangements and wedding decors and just about anything art related. If you want some of her creative ideas, get in touch with her. Contact details below :

Bello Events

Grace 012-3135206

or for art classes :

in2art by Grace Tang

012-3135206

grace.in2art@gmail.com